Unmasking the Motherhood Struggles: ADHD, Perfectionism & The Holidays


In this episode, we dive deep into the world of ADHD, motherhood, and self-compassion. Our guest, Ashley Ogbaselassie, a fellow parenting coach and mom of three, shares her personal journey of navigating the challenges of early motherhood and the transformative impact of an ADHD diagnosis.

Early Struggles and the ADHD Awakening
Ashley candidly discusses the overwhelming feelings of inadequacy and isolation she experienced during her early years of motherhood. She shares how the seemingly endless cycle of exhaustion, frustration, and self-doubt took a toll on her mental health. It wasn’t until she sought an ADHD diagnosis for her son that she began to recognize the similarities in her own struggles.

Breaking the Stigma and Embracing Self-Compassion
One of the most powerful aspects of Ashley’s story is her willingness to challenge the stigma surrounding ADHD, particularly in women. She highlights how perfectionism, often associated with ADHD, can exacerbate feelings of inadequacy and imposter syndrome, especially during the holiday season.

Practical Tips for Navigating the Holidays
As the holidays approach, Ashley offers practical advice for managing sensory overload and setting realistic expectations. She emphasizes the importance of self-care practices, such as mindfulness and meditation, to help moms with ADHD stay grounded and reduce stress.

A Message of Hope
For moms who may be struggling, Ashley shares a message of hope and encouragement. She reminds us that it’s okay to ask for help, to set boundaries, and to prioritize self-care. By embracing our unique strengths and challenges, we can navigate the complexities of motherhood with grace and resilience.

Want to connect with Ashley?
Visit her website www.theguidingwell.com 

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